Remember when you are having an argument with your partner always use your indoor voice. Speak as though your are in a public venue. 10% of arguments are due to a difference of opinion. 90% are due to the wrong tone of voice. You can prevent an argument from escalating into an all out war if you maintain a steady and calm voice. Yelling and screaming will not get the results you want.
So, the next time you find yourself having a difference of opinion with your partner, take a breath and state your position in a calm manner. This will help to diffuse the conversation without saying things you just might regret.
Best wishes and Happy Communicating